“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time” -Thomas Edison
It’s been awhile. I’ve been drinking a ridiculous cocktail of self-management, stress, and school. This school year has been beautiful but right now I’m struggling. I am struggling so hard.
These past two weeks have proven to be, as I so eloquently phrased it, “me just getting shat on repeatedly with no ending in sight.” Oh yes, how I have a way with words. But, it feels so accurate. It feels like my heart and mind have been told to f*** off after giving and giving all they have. I wake up late for almost all of my morning classes, I scramble to get work done on time or blatantly don’t finish it (I’m looking at you English paper) and lately I’ve just felt like an all-around loser. I feel like I’m letting people down. I’m talking mom-sitting-you-down-and-saying-she’s-disappointed-in-your-actions-and-knows-you’re-better-than-this letting people down.
I’ve pulled 2 all-nighters in the last week, watched my homework assignments drift away from me like some cast away boat in the sea, and seen my patience drain. I’ve also seen a dear friend, mentor, and coach pass away. And life just doesn’t feel so peachy-keen right now. But, I guess I have some sort of point here (hopefully)? Although things may feel like total bogus right now, I do know a few things that I wouldn’t have known last year. I am loved and, although I do not feel I am worthy of love, I do have it. I have strength even though I feel as weak as cardboard. My anxiety does not mean I am failing and neither do these setbacks. Sometimes life can just suck big time. It can feel like a vicious domino effect of “Well, this couldn’t get worse”s accompanied by, “Ah I was wrong it just did”s. But for anyone feeling this way, I just want to let you know this:
We’re in this together. You’ve got a dysfunctional, but loving, friend in me. You are worthy of the space you take up (even if you’re like me and don’t feel you are) and you most certainly are doing your best at this point in your life. Hold steady as these metaphorical and physical crazy winds blow at us. We can get through this.
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